Sex – most people are doing it, but many choose not to talk about it. So, let’s be frank, how’s your sex life?
A healthy sex life is important for any adult relationship, but it’s not always easy. Between different libidos and differing kinks, it can be challenging to navigate the waters of maintaining a regular and loving sex life.
Fortunately, there are a few simple fixes! You can improve your sex life without much effort – spicing things up and improving your communication will do wonders.
So, ready to make a change to your love life? Read on for three simple sex life tips.
1. Foreplay Starts In the Morning
No, we don’t mean wake up and inhale each other’s morning breath (unless you want to). By ‘foreplay starts in the morning,’ we mean that you need to treat each other well all day.
Don’t expect great sex in the evening if you’ve ignored each other all day and then jump into bed expecting a great connection. Be attentive and loving throughout the day – by the time it gets to bedtime; you’ll be ready to give each other that good lovin’.
2. Check Your Sex Drive
One of the main complaints between couples is the frequency of how often they have sex. If this is a problem in your relationship, it’s time to address this.
Consider whether these factors could be influencing your libido:
- Unresolved issues in your relationship
- Unhealthy diet
- Smoking and alcohol
- Mental health issues
- Chronic stress
- Hormonal imbalances
Fortunately, you have the power to change most of these factors. If this doesn’t work, there are options for both female enhancement and male enhancement.
Men can buy pills to help with either libido or achieving and maintaining an erection. Enhancement pills for women and some lubrication will help with any issues on the female front.
3. Shake Things Up
Is it time to spice up your love life? (If you have the same ‘routine’ each time, the answer is a resounding yes!).
Talk to your partner about any fantasies, what they like, and what they don’t like.
You could incorporate anything from simple loving massages all the way up to BDSM. Every couple is different, but make sure you’re honest about what you’d like to do and set clear boundaries.
If you’ve been together a while, why not try some ‘stranger meets a stranger at a bar’ style role play? Trust the process; you might love it.
Have the Sex Life of Your Very Best Dreams
You deserve to have a loving, raunchy, and fulfilling sex life. With these healthy sex life tips, you’re well on your way to the best sex of your life.
So, talk to your partner – what’s missing? What might help? Is there anything new you’d like to try? Don’t be embarrassed; all the best sex comes from excellent communication.
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